Honour-based violence (HBV) represents a pervasive form of gendered oppression rooted in cultural traditions and patriarchal systems. It seeks to control and suppress individual agency, particularly for women and girls, in the name of preserving family or community “honour.” This article explores the narratives of young women in Sweden who have endured HBV, shedding light on their vulnerabilities, the systemic challenges they face, and the role of Swedish social services in providing support and relief.
HBV is not confined to a single culture, religion, or region; it transcends borders and manifests in various forms worldwide. At its core, HBV hinges on the belief that the behavior of women is intrinsically tied to the reputation of their families or communities. For the women subjected to these rigid norms, life is often characterized by a lack of autonomy and agency. They are controlled through restrictions on movement, clothing, education, and social interactions, with severe consequences, including violence, when these norms are violated.
In Sweden, a country that prides itself on gender equality and human rights, the existence of HBV underscores the challenges of integrating diverse populations with varying cultural norms. Estimates suggest that tens of thousands of women and girls in Sweden live under the shadow of HBV, facing threats such as forced marriage, female genital mutilation, and honour-related restrictions. While these numbers highlight the urgency of the issue, they also reveal the limitations of current systems in addressing such deeply ingrained cultural practices.
The study at the center of this discussion focuses on young women aged 18 to 25 who sought help from Swedish social services to escape the grip of HBV. Their narratives provide a vivid picture of the oppressive environments they left behind, as well as the struggles they encountered in their pursuit of freedom. The women described their lives as being tightly controlled by family members, with some recounting experiences of constant surveillance. One woman revealed how her every movement was tracked using bus schedules or even GPS devices, leaving her with no personal space or independence.
The pressure to conform to honour norms extended beyond the immediate family, involving the wider community as enforcers of these standards. Women shared stories of being mocked, shamed, or harassed by neighbors or acquaintances for minor acts of defiance, such as not wearing a veil or attending public swimming pools. These acts of resistance, though small, were seen as affronts to the family’s reputation and often triggered severe backlash.
The decision to seek help from social services was, for many, an act of desperation—a choice made in moments of extreme crisis. For some, this decision came after years of emotional and physical abuse, while others were driven to act by the fear of forced marriage or even death. However, reaching out for help was not without its challenges. The women described the immense psychological burden of breaking family ties, knowing they risked permanent estrangement and even violent retribution. One participant recounted how contacting social services led to threats against her life, as her family viewed her decision as the ultimate betrayal.
Swedish social services play a pivotal role in supporting individuals fleeing HBV, yet their effectiveness is often limited by systemic and cultural gaps. While many women expressed gratitude for the support they received, they also shared stories of frustration and disillusionment. Some women experienced delays in accessing services or felt that their situations were misunderstood by social workers unfamiliar with the complexities of HBV. Language barriers further exacerbated these challenges, with one woman describing how her inability to communicate effectively delayed the assistance she desperately needed.
The quality of placements in sheltered housing or foster families also varied significantly. While some women found solace and security in these environments, others experienced isolation and alienation. One woman compared her foster home to a cold, unwelcoming space, where her emotional needs were overlooked in favor of fulfilling basic physical requirements. She poignantly stated that she would have preferred to live in a refugee camp surrounded by loved ones than to endure the loneliness of her placement.
Despite these challenges, social services also provided life-changing support for many of the women. Thoughtful interventions, such as connecting women with peer networks or providing trauma-informed care, made a significant difference. One participant described the profound relief she felt when a social worker took her fears seriously and acted decisively to ensure her safety. Another woman, who had fled a forced marriage, recounted how social services not only provided her with protection but also helped her rebuild her life, describing the social workers as “angels” who gave her a second chance.
The broader societal response to HBV in Sweden, however, remains inadequate in addressing the root causes of this violence. Prevention and education efforts are critical in challenging the patriarchal norms that underpin HBV. Public awareness campaigns, school-based programs, and community engagement initiatives are essential tools in promoting gender equality and empowering individuals to assert their rights. Yet, these efforts must be coupled with robust support systems that prioritize the needs of survivors.
The study also highlighted the importance of recognizing the psychological toll of HBV on survivors. Many women grappled with feelings of guilt, loss, and identity crises as they navigated their new lives. The emotional strain of severing family ties was compounded by the challenges of integrating into a new cultural context. Social services must take a holistic approach to support, addressing not only the immediate safety concerns of survivors but also their long-term psychological and social needs.
Ultimately, the narratives of these women serve as a powerful testament to their resilience and courage. Their stories reveal the immense strength required to break free from oppressive environments and build independent lives. At the same time, they underscore the urgent need for systemic reforms to ensure that social services are equipped to meet the unique challenges of HBV. By listening to the voices of survivors and incorporating their experiences into policy and practice, Sweden can take meaningful steps toward eradicating HBV and supporting the rights and dignity of all individuals.

